Regarding to the college I'm about to enroll during degree level, I've made up my mind so do my dearest mom.
As always heart to heart with a low and peaceful tone can solve a lot of problem in life, rather than bunch of tigers roaring and screaming for a decision making.
I talked to her and I tried to bring in the subject to her. We talk calmly and she explained why I shall not stick to my current so called "university college". The entire reason behind her choice for me to experience another college is all about her perceptions on tarUC level of education. Infact my mom doesn't complain any negativity about my college but just said that others might be better, as always. For her, she loves me unconditionally and money ain't an issue for her son's education. She told me all she can gives now is a better education, because it is an asset to build my bright future.
Other than that, she wanted me to explore to another culture and environment other than staying in hostel. Because I'm still young and changes like this would make me mature and good.
As for what I replied her. I told her nicely, I disagree with the statement. Yes I know papers, certificates are important to determine one's qualification in respective field, and it is also "nowadays" form of foundation in how much we will received in our income. Isn't it a trend now? Diploma now, degree soon to be mainstream-ed. Besides, I believe in potential other than relying on the cert. You might have a good cert from london UK or whatsoever fantastic college. But attitude marks a person's succession in life but not that! Not to judge my brother, he has 2 very good college in technology and business studies. But it doesn't refers to his professionally in that field. He even resit and the cgpa close to failing passing rate.
After so much of discussion, she finally said "all I want is just a better education for you, yet it is still your choice to choose what to study and where to study". My heart melted that moment. Even my dad supports me this time, he has not much comment but he told mom just let me to choose where I liked.
Other than that, there's a suspicious matter that worries mom, she kinda warned me not to make such decision because of hua king. But intact, she's the biggest influence on my desicion. Without her appearance, I would've gone long ago, changes school and my course studied. Because of kingking, I stood up and decided to runs back to what I am about to stop. But all in the end, I liked here, the people, the environment, the lifestyle and the culture here.
Lets hope that she loves me as I did. This few days, felt so in love with her again and again. Wish for our loyalty never dies.
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